I had been casually using dildos for a few months before I started to notice an odd sensation inside my pussy. After a while, I wondered, “Will using dildos a lot make my pussy loose?”
At first I felt a bit embarrassed even thinking about the idea, but the more I thought about it, the more I felt like it was a valid concern. After all, I had been using a lot of them and never gave any thought to the potential consequences. I decided to do some research and see what I could find out.
The first thing I learned is that loosening of the vaginal walls is a very rare side-effect when using dildos. A lot of people experience some light stretching after using dildos for a while, but it’s usually temporary and doesn’t lead to lasting loosening. That being said, it is possible to experience more long-term loosening from overuse or using toys that are too large. I was probably using toys that were too big, but luckily I hadn’t done any lasting harm.
Most experts advise to stick to toys of a moderate size and not to use them for extended periods of time. In addition, it’s important to make sure that the toys are made with quality materials that are body-safe. Cheap, porous materials can harbor bacteria and other unsavory things which could cause real damage if they’re used too often.
Overall, the takeaway for me was that if I wanted to keep myself safe, I had to make sure that I was using the right size toys and that they were made from quality material. I also learned that I should be using lube! Of course, this isn’t usually a problem when using dildos, since they don’t produce any of their own lubrication.
So, to answer my question, no, using dildos a lot won’t make your pussy loose, but it is important to use them responsibly and use the right materials and sizes. In other words, if you’ve got a good-quality dildo and are using it in moderation, you shouldn’t have too much to worry about in terms of loosening.
I learned that there’s more to playing with dildos than just pleasure. Proper use of lube, proper size, proper material, careful use all factor in. Not only do these habits leave me safe but also as comfortable as possible.
It also comes down to understanding my body. I need to know beforehand the size I am comfortable with. This can be determined by the size of my current partners penis or can be simply by experimentation. It’s important to develop this skill and knowledge of your body. Knowing your limits is key to safe and comfortable dildo use.
When it comes down to materials, it is important to look for body-safe materials. Many inexpensive or porous materials can cause bacteria buildup. Not only is it important to choose quality made materials but also to be aware that dildos made with hard materials can cause bruising or pain if used too vigorously.
I feel that it’s important to understand the do’s and don’ts of using dildos before partaking in the activity. Dildos are capable of producing extreme pleasure, but they can also cause damage if not used correctly. I’ve learned a lot about what it takes to use dildos responsibly and it’s been a journey that certainly hasn’t been without its struggles.
Not only is it important to use the right size and material but also varying intensity. This goes along with understanding your body and knowing what you are comfortable with. This can mean going from slower thrusts with lighter pressure to faster thrusts with stronger pressure.
By experimenting in a safe way, I’ve learned the sensations that my body needs and likes. This requires a bit of a balancing act. Be sure to not over do it at the same time being aware of not flying under the radar and actually feeling those pleasure inducing sensations.
Finally, being aware of the aftermath of using dildos. After using a dildo, it’s important to clean it. Many materials can’t be washed with hot water and harsh soaps but need only a damp cloth. This also goes for toys with vibrators or removable parts. Being aware of cleaning these properly is important for avoiding bacteria buildup and skin irritation. It’s also important to be aware of the emotional effects of using dildos. This is why many recommend that dildo use be part of a balanced activity with both solo- and partner-play.