I’m sure you’ve all heard of dildos. You know, those plastic sex toys they sell in sex shops, or online? Well, I was recently wondering if having a dildo in the house would damage my relationship.
At first I worried that maybe it would make my partner feel uncomfortable or inadequate. After all, a dildo is a substitute for an actual man, so would my partner think I’m replacing him? I’m sure it doesn’t help that my friends are always ribbing me about it. It’s all “Hey, why don’t you buy a dildo and get it over with already!” with a wink.
But then I thought, is there actually anything wrong with having a dildo? It doesn’t mean I’m looking for anyone else, or that I don’t feel satisfied with my partner. I mean, I’m with him because I love and trust him, right? So why would a dildo make a difference? After all, it’s a tool for my own pleasure, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Once I thought of it that way, I realized that maybe a dildo could even be a positive thing in my relationship. Especially if it meant I could learn more about what turns me on, and then show my partner what I enjoy. Since I have a dildo now, I can experiment and teach him what I like, rather than relying entirely on guesswork. And that might just bring us closer together.
And, as an added bonus, having a dildo around might make our sex life a little more interesting. I mean, the possibilities are endless! We could use my dildo in “dual action” with us both at the same time, or maybe I could take charge and use the dildo on him instead. Or, if we’re feeling really adventurous, we could even use it in different ways to take our pleasure to the next level!
So, in the end, I think having a dildo could actually bring us closer together. We might be able to spice up our sex life and experiment in ways we haven’t before. But, it all comes down to trust and communication. As long as we keep talking and being honest with each other, I’m sure having a dildo around won’t be an issue.
Now that I’ve shared my thoughts, I’d love to hear what you all think. Do you think a dildo could be a positive thing in a relationship, or do you think it could damage it? Let me know in the comments!
I’m sure you’ve already heard the horror stories about couples who fight over smartphone addiction or who can’t agree on household chores. But when it comes to using dildos in the bedroom, I think the key to success is communication and openness. As long as both partners feel comfortable and safe, there’s no reason why a dildo can’t enhance pleasure for everyone involved, and even bring them closer together.
When it comes to using dildos, it’s important to remember that they’re just tools used to explore different kinds of pleasure. Having a dildo doesn’t mean your partner is inadequate or that you’re trying to replace them. In fact, when used properly, a dildo can help you understand your own body better and explore different kinds of pleasure with your partner.
It’s also important to set ground rules for using dildos in the bedroom. Different couples will have different comfort levels, so it’s important to discuss what kind of activities are off-limits and what kind are okay. For some couples, using a dildo in “dual action” might be comfortable, while for others it might be too much. For these couples, it might be better to use the dildo on one person at a time, or even just incorporate a dildo into foreplay.
When it comes to incorporating a dildo into your sex life, it’s important to be conscious and respectful of each other’s boundaries. It also helps to keep an open dialogue and talk honestly and openly about what you’re both comfortable with.
Even if it feels intimidating or embarrassing to talk about sex, it’s important to be honest and open with each other. That way, everyone feels comfortable and safe, and you can make sure you both get the most out of using dildos. In the end, your relationship will be stronger and healthier, and you’ll be more satisfied with your sex life.
Once you’re both comfortable with using a dildo, the possibilities are endless. You can explore different ways to use it, such as incorporating it into role-playing or BDSM, or even using it as a creative way to spice up your usual sex life. You can also use it to bring an extra level of pleasure to your partner during foreplay.
Ultimately, using a dildo should be a positive and empowering experience for both partners, and it should ultimately bring them closer together. If your relationship is strong and built on trust, having a dildo around should not destroy it, but rather make it stronger.
So, do you think a dildo could damage your relationship? Or do you think it could actually bring you closer together? Let me know what you think in the comments!