It all starts with selecting and preparing the rope. I’m a fan of jute and hemp rope for this purpose because they both have a softness to them that doesn’t tug on the skin. They’re also absorbent – which helps to keep the pleasure steady rather than abrupt. And unlike some other material, it won’t cause skin irritation.
Next, you need to measure for an appropriate fit. Getting the right size is critical because a harness that is too tight won’t be pleasurable. And one that’s too loose and can cause a mess! So make sure to take the measurements twice and write them down for reference.
Once you have measured and cut the rope, the next step is knotting the rope. You’ll need a few different types of knots – all of which you can learn online – to put it all together. From a basic knot to a few fancy ones in between, I found that deepening my knotting skills was a lot of fun, and worth the extra effort.
What’s great about this particular project is that your options are endless! You can choose whatever color(s) you’d like and customize the design. I made mine so it would fit over the hips, and I also added a few extra knots for an extra bit of flair.
The last thing you need to do it thread the rope through the dildo. This bit can be a bit awkward – I recommend having a friend help if you can. Once you’re finished, make sure to check for any fraying or exposed fibers – this can be dangerous!
So that’s the basics on how to make a rope dildo harness – pretty cool, right? After my first go, I was surprised just how enjoyable the experience was! Granted, I’ve been learning about rope for years – and mastering those knots did take extra practice. But now I’ve got a custom-made harness that is perfectly tailored to the shape of my body – and dildos if that’s not worth it, I don’t know what is!
Now that you know the basics, let’s talk about some of the accessories you can use to spice up your rope harness. A good starting point is a paddle or flogger, as both of these items provide stimulation as well as a visual feast. Other items like spreader bars or cock rings can also add an extra layer of pleasure.
But don’t forget the importance of safety. When engaging in bondage, determine beforehand a “safe word” and stick to basic safety practices. Make sure that everyone knows that the safe word ends the activity immediately. You can also designate a “safe person” who is responsible for keeping an eye on everyone throughout the experience.
Speaking of safety, make sure you’re using the proper jute or hemp rope for this kind of activity. It’s not advised to use any old rope that you can find around the house. In fact, you should never use synthetic materials for bondage – they’re far too slippery (and dangerous!).
And finally, a solid lubricant is a must when using a rope dildo harness. This helps your rope move smoothly over your body, and lubricant allows for fuller insertion, which can lead to mind-blowing orgasms. Just make sure to use something water-based so you don’t damage your rope material.
Now that you know the basics of making a rope dildo harness, let’s talk about some fun ways to add to the experience. You can start by adding a blindfold – this takes away the sense of sight and heightens the senses of touch and smell. Muscles tensing restraints can also create a thrilling sensation when used in the right areas. And incorporating a sensation toy or device can ramp up the intensity even further.
You can also try adding in some temperature play – using something like an ice cube or heated massage stone. Just remember to go slow! A sudden temperature change can be quite shocking, and not in a good way! The same applies to pressure – start off with light massage strokes and take things up a notch whenever needed.
If you want to take things to the next level, adding vibration can be incredibly tempting. With the range of vibrators out there these days, you can try out all sorts of shapes and sizes – from tiny rabbit-style vibrators to larger, more complex machines. Just make sure to find something that works well with the dildo you’re using.
Incorporating light bondage can also be loads of fun. You can opt for a pair of cuffs or rope ties, which can add to the sensation play. Or you could try a bar or spreader bar to keep things in place. No matter which option you choose, make sure it’s designed to be comfortable and safely used for bondage.
And that’s it! Now you know how to make a rope dildo harness, plus some fun ideas to enhance the experience. Whether you’re trying it out with a partner or going solo, I’m sure you’ll find your own ways to customize your rope dildo harness. Just make sure to stay safe and have fun!