Hey friend, I just had to tell you this – it was a little while ago I tried something different during one of my ‘me-time’ nights. Truth be told, as an Asian male, it was my first time exploring sex toys and trying out masturbation with them. I remember, I was pretty nervous at first. Whether it was okay to do this, or I was being too extreme, I was cautiously treading this unknown territory.
But once I started exploring all these different tools, the adrenaline rush that accompanied it – it was unlike anything I’d felt before. I was now excited to discover the endless possibilities this new experience could bring! Harriet Sugarcookie, a sex and relationships blogger had written about it, which had persuaded me to give it a chance.
The variety of sex toys was simply breathtaking! There were egg vibes, ring vibes, finger vibes, bullet vibes, butt plugs, prostate massagers, butt plugs, and so much more! I chose to start with a basic bullet vibe, which had the perfect intensity for me to get used to this Masturbation-meets-Technology thing. I started with a slow rhythm and quickly got familiar with how to maneuver the vibe and control the sensations.
It was pretty incredible to feel the power of these vibration and the pleasure that came with it as well! I eventually discovered that slow and steady does the trick and then I let the pleasure run like a river, until I eventually reached my climax! I even found that using the tip of the vibe around my sensitive spots and teasing them, made for a much more enjoyable experience.
The overall experience was pretty entertaining and definitely gave me an entirely new perspective on myself and what I am capable of. As a person, having more knowledge and information is always empowering and in this case I felt like I gained so much more, as I explored a new avenue of pleasures!
These days, I’d definitely recommend others to give it a try too. In terms of safety, there’s silicon sex toys which are easily cleanable, and are great for using with lubricants as well. Furthermore, there are even toys which are more discreet and don’t draw unnecessary attention.
All in all, it has been quite the journey exploring sex toys and masturbation, as an Asian male. I can’t stress enough how much a new experience like this can open up entirely new avenues of pleasure and happiness.
My first experience of using sex toys has really taught me to explore and experiment. There are so many different types of sex toys to choose from, and you never really know which one will work best for you. You really have to go out there and experiment with different toys, to find the best fit.
I think the key is to find a toy with the right intensity and material that is comfortable for you. Recognizing which parts of your body are more sensitive than others is also important. Once you know where to apply the stimulation, you can bring yourself closer to pleasure.
The vast array of sex toys out there can also help to explore different types of erotic pleasure. And some of them, like chastity cages, can even help heighten the experience.
Finally, why should someone be shy about using these kinds of toys? Especially when there are all kinds of toys available for both external and internal use. I know, it might sound crazy but the intensity of these toys is no joke.
Rather than being embarrassed, it’s important to remember how important it is to explore and create pleasure for yourself. And sex dolls though there may be a stigma attached to it, Asian men have the same right to enjoy themselves and explore new pleasure as anyone else.
Therefore, I urge all the Asian men out there to consider giving sex toys a go as it is a worthwhile experience. Even if it’s your first time, I promise you it can be an incredible experience of pleasure and discovering yourself.